Friday, April 3, 2009

More on the Wedding!

Many people have been asking me how's the wedding preparation going. Actually, it's very smooth-going because I'm blessed with so many wonderful friends and supportive parents who has helped, encouraged and advised me along the way. Family and friends are indispensable in the process of wedding planning!

I think besides the budget, the guest list is one of the most important parts of planning for a wedding. I have attended many weddings, sometimes alone, and I have found that my experience at any wedding is very much determined by who I sit with at the dinner table. For example, sitting as a single through a 2 hour wedding dinner with a whole table of couples you don't know is really no fun.

When guests are seated with people they are comfortable with and can interact easily, you don't need a cool live band, a talkative mc, karaoke-ing relatives or impromptu performances for entertainment. Just play nice soothing music to complement their conversations!

I don't expect the guests at my wedding to be looking at me the whole time (I don't really like too much attention), but I do want them to have a good time.

So one of the keys to having a fun wedding is simply to know how to arrange your guests at the dinner table. And make sure you don't miss out anyone!

1 comment:

Stephanie said...

Thank you for being so thoughtful!